How To Gain Confident When You Think You Are A Loser

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WHAT IS CONFIDENT?

The word “confident” is such a powerful weapon and armor that any human can wield.

And the confident is what let the men keep going further developing and discovering.

Confident bring evolution, development, achievement and the change in humanity. Well,

we all do have confident dwelling inside of us, but as you can see people now tend to

lose self-confidence gradually becoming down-and-outer in everyday’s life.  You need to

realize that self-confidence is powerful enough to turn your wheel-hot, adding abundant

joyous. Confident is much alike fuel in a car, you can’t reach your goal as long as you have enough

fuel in your car.

WHY DO WE  LOSE SELF-CONFIDENCE?

I personally believe these are the main reasons to become a low-confidence.

1.CRITICISM.

how to be confidentThe #1 factor people lose their self-confidence is because of the criticism. People

Unaware of that go on criticizing others, hurting their feelings unconsciously giving emotional wound. This develops disbelieving themselves and eventually becoming a victim of losing self-confidence.

2.NEGATIVE THINKING.

how to be confident Well, negative thinking sure kills our confident. Negative is our natural enemy which is always inside of our mind discouraging us, telling us what could go wrong, why the things won’t work and hence becoming confident less.

3.LIVING LIFE AT LIMIT.

how to be confident The fear of making a terrifying mistake, the fear of criticism and caring about what people have to say about you won’t take you anywhere living your life at limit boundaries and comfort zone. Never pushing your limit and living in comfort zone will kill your inner-confidence.

TIPS ON BUILDING SELF-CONFIDENCE.

Now we all can overcome lacking our self-confidence through this various process.

1.WEAR POSITIVE LIKE A DRESS.                                                               how to be confidentI know you have heard hundreds of times saying be positive, positive attitude or positive mental. But do you really realize that positivity really has the power to change everything around you and the circumstances.

  1. GROOMING WELL IS PLUS BONUS.

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Now I want you to be serious about grooming yourself and dress up very well. I bet you had an experienced where you had felt very uncomfortable in front of others because you put on a dress which wasn’t comforting at all. Remember next time you go out, put on a dress which makes you super comfy, trim well and cut your hair which matches your style.

3.WEARING SMILE IS PRODUCTIVE.

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Smile often and it not only makes you productive, it comfort people surrounding you and hence gives you more confident. I don’t mean you to fake your smile all around everytime, a smile is the kindest thing you ever can give to anyone.

  1. OVERCOME YOUR FEAR.

It’s normal to have fear, remember everyone as a human do have fears, but how you face it, is what separate us from people who succeed. Sometimes fear caused by overthinking which leads us to back down on achieving something. Well, fear is just a state of mind caused by overthinking. Know your fear and work on it.

5.CHECKING YOUR HABIT.

how to be confident

Have you ever think of your habit or gives your time on thinking about your habit?

Do you also know that the reason you bound with fear, negative, self-talk, overthinking, laziness and living in a comfort zone might be because of your habit that you have cultivated over a period of time? Now habit works only on replacing by action.Although changing habit is a slow process nothing gives you happiness accomplishing things that are hard. Start by working on accomplishing small things.

  1. READ SELF DEVELOPMENT BOOK OR WATCH MOTIVATIONAL VIDEO.

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Just like any other muscle in our body, our brain also need an exercise regularly and it keeps our brain active. The more you read the books the more your mind and brain will be filled with tons of knowledges which will help us to tackle any challenging situation we face. So, these things will ultimately give you more confident.

 


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